hey! sorry again about the length of the last comment, i really had no idea it was so long until it was posted...this one should be more concise.
i don't know about the other people reading the blog, but i am interested in the comments you had regarding the questions in the last post. i think all of those are relevant and it would be great to hear any ideas.
also i thought of a few topics, and they may not be possible to cover but here they are: 1. how to deal with differences in desire for sex. because, i suspect, every couple is different, i think it would be useful to talk about this from the point of view of the person who is desirous as well as the person who is not as much "in the mood," if that makes sense. how do we deal with this in a way that is loving and sensitive? 2. the spirituality of sex...essentially, how do we see sex as a spiritual act? i am assuming this is in common because of your earlier posts. 3. how do we treat the act of sex as one of respect, appreciation, adoration? again, i'm assuming this is a goal of sex. 4. communicating about sex. what if it doesn't come easily or naturally? is it worth beginning the conversation if it doesn't? ideas about how to do that? i know these topics are all possibly very long conversations but those are just some ideas i've had.
thanks and i hope these are relevant! looking forward to the next post:)
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hey! sorry again about the length of the last comment, i really had no idea it was so long until it was posted...this one should be more concise.
i don't know about the other people reading the blog, but i am interested in the comments you had regarding the questions in the last post. i think all of those are relevant and it would be great to hear any ideas.
also i thought of a few topics, and they may not be possible to cover but here they are:
1. how to deal with differences in desire for sex. because, i suspect, every couple is different, i think it would be useful to talk about this from the point of view of the person who is desirous as well as the person who is not as much "in the mood," if that makes sense. how do we deal with this in a way that is loving and sensitive?
2. the spirituality of sex...essentially, how do we see sex as a spiritual act? i am assuming this is in common because of your earlier posts.
3. how do we treat the act of sex as one of respect, appreciation, adoration? again, i'm assuming this is a goal of sex.
4. communicating about sex. what if it doesn't come easily or naturally? is it worth beginning the conversation if it doesn't? ideas about how to do that? i know these topics are all possibly very long conversations but those are just some ideas i've had.
thanks and i hope these are relevant! looking forward to the next post:)
keeley, great suggestions. Also, I am planning on addressing the questions form the last post (these are for more ideas). So grateful for your input!
no problem! thank you for doing this!
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